To attract a king, you have to be a Queen

This weeks dating advice comes to you lovelies first even before I post it on my other website - Possibly Maybe. I was really passionate about this particular issue when I was writing about it and wanted to share it with you all especially, I hope you enjoy xx

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To attract a King act like a Queen

You get what you give.

Have you ever heard the old saying ‘treat others as you would like to be treated’? Probably a million times, and yet why does there seem to be such a disconnect of this behaviour when it comes to relationships? We’ve all been witness to couples where you think “God, she (or he!) doesn’t deserve someone like that, why would they stay if they’re treated like shit”, and we’ve also got those couple friends who respect and love one another beautifully and were made for each other. My verdict to this?

To attract a King, you have to be a Queen.

Let’s for a moment put aside the notion of fairytale endings, and one true loves, and accept that we live in a world where relationships take work, hard work sometimes, mutual respect and taking the lows with the highs. Generally in life, it is a given, that you are always going to get back what you put out, so why would that be any different in a relationship?

I’m going to say it again.

To attract a King, you have to be a Queen.

Insecurity breeds insecurity, jealously breeds jealously and bad behaviour encourages bad behaviour. A healthy and loving relationship comes from two mutually respectful people who understand each other and both want to put the work, trust, love and friendship in to one another. If you’re going to be insecure and jealous of your partner (not King & Queen behaviour at all) and then get confused or annoyed when your partner turns around and portrays the same jealously and insecurity then chances are you shouldn’t be in a relationship to begin with.

So where to from here? Well to be honest, acting like this hypothetical Queen is about the person that you are and needs to come from within so no amount of advice can change you if you aren’t ready or don’t want it. Living by simple rules such as believing the universe will give back to you what you give out, and treating people with respect is a start. Loving your King un conditionally, flaws and all, and recognising friendship is just as an important aspect of your relationship is crucial.  

Be kind, love hard, like AND love one another and respect your partner in the highest regard.

And remember…..

You will always get what you give.

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P.s I feel I need a disclosure on this one saying in no way do I feel I have at all mastered this behaviour or relationship... I adore Mr M and love and respect him unconditionally but of course we still have faults and flaws like any relationship. I write from life experience and as a witness to life, especially when it comes to Possibly Maybe dating articles so don't take this as preaching. I need to read the advice frequently myself. It's just a little love observation from a girl who loves hard and does try to be a good person.